Wives, As a sexual abuse survivor...
Do you
shut down
when you try to explain to your husband what is going on with you?
Do you wish
you had the support of the man you married but don't know how to get it?
Do you sometimes feel
like it would be easier to just take off your wedding ring and walk away?
Wouldn't you love to be able to feel the support of your husband
as you heal from your past sexual abuse?
Do you even think it is possible???
I AM HERE TO TELL YOU
IT IS POSSIBLE!!
I am Vicki Dau and this is my husband Tom
and we are here to bring hope to you!
I know what it feels like to sometimes want to just walk away!!
I know the daily struggle and weariness to overcome the triggers!
And I know the feeling of wanting support but shutting down instead of reaching out.
And I would like to invite you a
FREE 3 DAY CHALLENGE:
GETTING YOUR HUSBAND ON BOARD
July 12, 13, 14
6:30pm CST
Understand what was lost from being sexually abuse AND what is possible for your relationship
Connect with how strong you really are and how to be open to your husband's touch
Learn to trust yourself and create the relationship you desire with your husband as your best friend
Make confident decisions and feel safe so you can keep the communication strong and take steps towards enjoying intimacy
As a sexual abuse survivor who realized how beneficial it was to make my husband my ally,
that I would rather not go through all this ALL ALONE,
I even overcame the triggered feelings and now am enjoying a fulfilling relationship
with my best friend and lover of 34 years!
18 years into our marriage, my repressed sexual abuse memories came flooding back and my husband and I spent the next decade understanding the damage the sexual abuse did, and how to overcome the effects.
Even though we tried following the advice of "the marital experts" very little helped us as I continued to lash out at my husband and shut down more and more as I felt guilty being triggered by his loving touch.
Day by day, month by month, year by year, we learned what kept us at odds and what brought down the walls between, what caused dissension and what united and bonded us. I finally understood that my husband was not the enemy, and I took action daily, working towards getting us on the same team.
And now, as a Certified EFT Practitioner, Master Coach, and happily married woman, I share what you can do and even what NOT to do, the exact things that I did and still do so you don't have to spend as much time as I did figuring out what works, or worse...either be in a love-less, empty marriage or suffer the fate of being another statistic in the divorce column.
What People Are Saying about working with Vicki
"Vicki’s sessions are unique, as they have been created not just from her own learning and knowledge, but also experience. The process of talking through occurrences: past and present, has proven to be more than eye-opening for me. And learning the practice of EFT has been powerful and transforming.
By simply listening, Vicki has the extraordinary gift to target exactly what needs adjustment. Through our sessions, I have learned to examine my thought process and beliefs of what is true, and not. I am more aware of daily interaction, circumstances and goal achievement; And as a result, have the tools and resources to realize my greatest potential yet!”
“Vicki Dau has a huge compassionate heart, an open, welcoming presence, and she’s also grounded, stable, focused. She connected the dots to things I was gliding past. That was so helpful. It was only through her guidance that I could finally see into my blind spots and let them go. She would guide me back into my feelings, into my body when I’d start roaming around up in my head. And because of that, I unlocked the deepest vow I’d taken and absolutely never seen before… I had decided at a young age I was helpless; i.e. powerless, i.e. a victim. This was the lynchpin… the piece that released all these other false stories I’d built about who I was and who I could be. I was stunned to see that I’d buried that all my life.”
Disclosure: The depicted experiences are not typical. Your background, education, experience, work ethic may differ. These are used as an example and not a guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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